Monday, September 26, 2022

鬼谷子留下的六条人性法则


 1. 穷者重利,以利切入。

跟没钱的人就不要谈什么理想愿景了,直接告诉他能赚多少钱就行了。跟操心柴米油盐的人谈诗和远方有什么意义呢?


2. 弱者重尊,以谦切入。

你求地位低下的人办事,你就要格外尊重他,因为他最缺这个。


3. 强者重果,以事切入。

强者,不喜欢跟弱者打交道,也不喜欢啰嗦。你跟他交往,不惜要太谦虚,别绕圈儿,就事论事,直奔主题就行了。他们最反感的就是形式化的废话。他们只跟有结果的人玩,你就直接了当点儿,你想要什么?你能提供什么?


4. 老者重捧,以礼切入。

跟年长的人打交道,一定要有礼貌,多听他们讲过去的事,多捧着他们点。因为在他们的观念里,认为自己年纪大,就很有智慧。你嘴上可以顺着他们,但是心里要有自己的主见。


5. 妇女重情,以柔切入。

最蠢的男人就是总喜欢跟女人讲道理,女人的道理就是情绪,你让她难受了,你对的都是错的。相反,你让她开心了,你错也是对,这就是女人的逻辑。


6. 智者重修,以真切入。

真正的高手都是注重每天修炼自己,反省自己,提升自己的人,简称就是活明白了的人。在这种人面前,其实你就是透明的,你那点什么小套路、小技巧、小计算,人家一眼就能看出来,所以你唯一的选择就是绝对的真实。跟高手过招,最大的套路叫真诚。

Sunday, September 25, 2022

Anniversary 19 Sep 2022

Yeah, it's our 8th anniversary
No special celebration this year
As long as happy with the family


Monday, September 5, 2022

一张嘴就让别人喜欢你

 


面对问候,不要说还行。
而是换成:
托你的福,最近还不错。


面对夸奖,不要说哪里哪里。
而是换成:
你更厉害,连说话都让人喜欢。


如果你迟到了,不要跟对方道歉说迟到了。
而是换成:
谢谢你的等候。


如果你做错事,千万不要说不好意思。
而是换成:
谢谢你的理解。


面对困难,不要说好惨啊。
而是换成:
我在成长。


面对挑战,不要说我不行。
而是换成:
我可以学。


夫妻之间不要说随便。
而是换成:
我听你的。


熟人之间不要说:你好傻呀。
而是换成:
你很有想法。


同事之间不要说你不行。
而是换成:
你很有潜力。


当你耽误了别人的时间,不要说对不起。
而是换成:
谢谢你愿意花时间陪我。


面对批评,不要说你很烦。
而是换成:
谢谢你的指教。


别人安慰你时,不要说我占用你的时间了。
而是换成:
谢谢你如此欣赏我。


赚钱再苦也不要说烦死了。
而是换成:
没什么大不了的。


生活再艰难,也不要说过不下去了。
而是换成:
不破不利。


别人鼓励的时候,不要说我总是让你失望。
而是换成:
谢谢你一直对我抱有希望。

Sunday, August 28, 2022

Simple Birthday Celebration

A simple birthday
Just you and me
25 Aug 2022

Thank you my dear
For staying beside me all the time
Having you together
Is always priceless



Sunday, August 21, 2022

Mother Birthday Celebration

Mother birthday celebration
@ Burghkin Coffee Cafe
Kampung Tujuh, Melaka
on 14 Aug 2022





























Monday, August 1, 2022

Liverpool Win Community Shield




FA Community Shield 2022: Liverpool wins FA Community Shield 2022 – Liverpool edge out Manchester City by a 3-1 margin to win the Community Shield at the King Power Stadium. Trent Alexander-Arnold fired the Reds in front with a fine finish before Julian Alvarez answered on his City debut after a VAR check. Mohamed Salah restored Liverpool’s advantage from the penalty spot following a handball in the box by Ruben Dias. Darwin Nunez then sealed the victory for Jurgen Klopp’s men with a close-range header in stoppage time to open his account for the Reds.
Scorers: Alexander-Arnold 21′, Salah (pen) 83′, Núñez 90+4′; Álvarez 70′
FA Community Shield 2022: Darwin Nunez scored on his competitive debut for the Reds
Liverpool claimed the first English domestic silverware of the season by beating Manchester City at Leicester’s King Power Stadium in Saturday’s Community Shield.
Darwin Núñez scored his first competitive goal for the Reds, while there was also a debut goal for City’s Julián Álvarez.
The deadlock was broken in the 21st minute, when Trent Alexander-Arnold’s curling effort from the edge of the box flicked off the head of Nathan Aké and in off the post.
Erling Haaland had his first sight of goal in the 34th minute but his effort was saved by Adrián, before the Norwegian missed another good chance to score seconds later when he failed to connect properly with Bernardo Silva’s cross.
Both sides introduced new signings from the bench just before the hour mark, with Darwin Núñez on for Liverpool and Julián Álvarez on for City.
Núñez was straight into the action and thought he’d won a penalty when he was brought down by Ederson, but the flag was up for offside.
The Uruguayan then had a brilliant chance in the 64th minute when he was slipped in by Jordan Henderson, but Ederson did well to race off his line and make a save with his face.
Álvarez then had the ball in the net for City when he tucked away a rebound after Adrián had saved to deny Phil Foden. The linesman put his flag up for offside against Foden but after a VAR check, the goal was allowed to stand.
Liverpool were then awarded a penalty when Núñez’s header struck Rúben Dias on the hand. Mohamed Salah stepped up and struck low into the bottom right corner for 2-1.
And with seven minutes of time added on, there was still time for Núñez to get on the scoresheet when he stooped to head home his first competitive Liverpool goal from Andrew Robertson’s knockdown.
Haaland then had a gilt-edged to pull one back for City when Adrián parried Foden’s effort into his path on the edge of the six-yard box, but the striker somehow blazed over with the goal gaping.

Sunday, July 31, 2022

Back to Confinement Center

 As we still communicating well
With the confinement lady Vivian
Who is now the manager of the confinement center
We plan a visit
back to the center
For QQ to meet up
with Vivian
on 31 Jul 2022





Saturday, July 9, 2022

8 Months Old Baby

 She's already 8 months old~ 
Still as cute as usual
😊😊😊😊😊





Saturday, July 2, 2022

UTAR Gathering 27062022

 It was just a passby for both Crystal and Alfred! 
Crystal last day in Amkor was on 3 June 2022
While Alfred joined Amkor on 6 June 2022
Due to that, we called a gathering
On 27 June 2022 at Jenjarom
Inviting the big sister Helena together
Just for a small gathering